Trust your feelings. If things feel good then they are usually good. If things don't feel right most of the time they just are not right. I look back at things and I think all along I felt that something just wasn't right but I got involved in something I just knew I should not get involved in. And found out it just was not the way to go. Or when I meet my husband I knew it was right the first time I meet him. And I still know he will be with me forever. Learn to trust how something makes you feel. You know what I am saying. Feel it in you gut.